5 Telltale Signs Your Parent's Home Isn't Safe Anymore

As our parents and loved ones age, their homes, once familiar havens, can subtly transform into spaces that pose unexpected risks. You might notice little things at first – a hesitant step, a new bruise – but these can be telltale signs that it's time to address home safety. We understand these conversations aren't always easy , but they are essential.

At Ohai, we've been in your shoes. Our mission is to empower safe, independent living in the home you love, and a crucial part of that is recognizing potential hazards before they lead to a crisis.

Here are five telltale signs that your parent's home might not be as safe as it once was:

1. Frequent Near-Falls or Actual Falls

This is often the most alarming and undeniable sign. Has your parent mentioned tripping or losing their balance, even if they caught themselves? Or worse, have they experienced a fall? Bathrooms are particularly high-risk areas, but falls can happen anywhere. A history of falls or even near-falls can indicate underlying issues with mobility, inadequate lighting, or obstacles in pathways. It's a clear signal that proactive measures are needed to prevent future, potentially more serious, incidents.

2. Difficulty with Daily Tasks (Especially in the Bathroom)

Observe how your parent navigates their routine. Are they struggling to get in and out of the shower or tub? Do they have trouble using the toilet or reaching items in cabinets? These daily struggles can be exhausting and indicate a need for modifications like grab bars , shower seats, or handheld showerheads. Reframe these changes not as a loss of independence, but as a way to enhance it, allowing them to move freely and confidently.

3. Clutter and Unsafe Pathways

A home that was once tidy might now have pathways obstructed by clutter, throw rugs, or furniture. These seemingly innocuous items can be significant tripping hazards. Look for:

• Piles of newspapers, books, or clothes on the floor.

• Loose rugs that can slip.

• Extension cords running across walkways.

• Furniture that makes it difficult to move freely between rooms.

Addressing clutter and ensuring clear, wide pathways is a simple yet effective step in fall prevention.

4. Inadequate Lighting

As we age, our vision changes, and good lighting becomes even more critical. Dimly lit hallways, staircases, or bathrooms can obscure obstacles and increase the risk of falls. Pay attention if your parent:

• Uses flashlights often indoors.

• Struggles to see in certain areas of the home, especially at night.

• Has difficulty reading or performing tasks due to poor illumination.

Automated lighting or smart home controls can offer convenience and peace of mind, making their home safer and easier to navigate.

5. Resistance to Help or Denial of Difficulties

This can be one of the most challenging signs to address. Your parent might be in denial about needing help or fear that accepting assistance means losing their independence. It's natural to feel hesitant about changes to a familiar space. When discussing these concerns, focus on benefits rather than deficits. Instead of saying, "You can't do this anymore," try, "Imagine how much easier and safer it would be to..." or "This will help you continue to do X". Emphasize how modifications can help them continue hobbies and social activities , fostering independence and maintaining dignity.

What's Next?

Noticing these signs is the first step. We know these conversations can be sensitive, which is why we've created a "Caregiver's Guide to Home Accessibility Buy-In" to help you navigate them effectively.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, remember that you don't have to tackle this alone. Ohai offers a complimentary home safety assessment. Our CAPS-certified professionals, including an Occupational Therapist on our team , can help identify potential risks and suggest solutions that are both functional and blend seamlessly with your home's style. We focus on solutions that are beautiful as well as functional.

Ready to explore how Ohai can help you and your loved one live safely and independently at home?

Schedule your complimentary home safety assessment today!